Soul mates… There are different varieties of soul mates–friends, family (blood- or not blo0d-related), animals/pets, lovers, etc.–so there is no limit on what soul mates can really be!
I truly, deep within my heart, believe that we have plenty of soul mates. Whether it be romantic love, or any other kind of love. I believe it is because of our free will, and the fact that if we don’t want a particular soul mate in our lives, we have many other choices.
Well what if you are in love with someone, or you just can’t get over a certain friend, you ask? Well, what they may be one of your soul mates, but they don’t have to stay in your life. Hate to say this… buuut there are plenty of other fish in the sea, my dear.
Yes, they are soul mates, but some soul mates are permanent, while many others are just temporary. They come into your life for a brief couple of moments into your life, teach you what you need to know, and they carry on. Don’t keep trying to make it work if you know deep down inside it’s just not meant to be.
You have to learn your lessons and move on with your life. What did they teach you? How to have more fun? To learn what you do or don’t deserve? To love yourself even more? Have you learned your self-worth because of them? Whatever it is that you learned from them, whether conscious or subconscious, acknowledge what you learned, give thanks within your heart, and let them go if it’s not working no matter what you do.
You have to give yourself permission to see more options in this world, there are a small amount of soul mates that are permanent, but if that’s what you want then you’re gonna have to tell yourself–and the Universe–that you want a permanent soul mate in your life. Friends, to create a new family of your own, lovers, etc.
One thing is guaranteed with every soul mate that crosses your path–you learn something, or some things, from each and every one of them.
Remind yourself that this is YOUR journey, and you are learning to love yourself. SO you can’t settle for people who can’t love you as much as you’re willing to love yourself, deary….
One thing to remember is that noooo one is perfect, and you will most definitely get hurt by your soul mates, but find and KEEP the ones worth keeping. The ones that don’t hurt you purposely. The ones who are willing to grow, willing to love you. The ones willing to change for the better, not just for you, but for THEMSELVES. If your soul mate(s) are not willing to grow then baby….they are nooottt meant to be in your life aymore, you hear me?
When you come to the real realization that there are many, manyyyyy soul mates out there for each and every single one of us, then you will come to have more peace of mind and you will truly feel you deserve the best.
Journey within to let you know that you deserve the best–no matter who or what you lose in life–and the Universe will bring soul mates, sometimes PERMANENT soul mates, to match or even EXCEED your expectations… So go on and EXPECT THE BEST!!!! 🙂 –J.R.
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